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Spotlight on…Lis Hoyte

Delighted to be shining a light on Lis Hoyte-Life coach, Author and Certified Speaker.

Lis is a teacher by profession with a passion for speaking and teaching. Lis own lived experience brought Lis to writing “Break Free” a transformational journey a paradigm shift out of coercive control was published in July 2021 to help women and men impacted by coercive control. Lis is also a practicing life coach and has helped many to makes changes in their lives to lead the life they choose to have. Lis spreads awareness through podcasts and her own social media platforms and has her first on stage live speaking event on September 11th 2021 London.


“When you cleanse your subconscious beliefs you begin to attract who you are”

Lis Hoyte


What brought you to writing?

 I have always loved writing and studying. My experience of being in a Coercive Controlling relationship brought inspired me to write a book. 


Who or what inspires you?

Bob Proctor, Children and the human mind and behaviour.


What is the one thing you have always wanted to try?

A Benjie Jump


If you could live anywhere where would it be?

Right where I am now.


 If you could go back in time and meet your younger self, what piece of advice would you give to your younger yourself?

Always be guided by your emotions


 What is the one question you would most like to be asked?

 Q-My perspectives on the thoughts that we think.

A-What we think about creates our lived experiences.


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All photos shared with the consent of Lis Hoyte


 Many thanks to Lis Hoyte much love and light from Stella’s open road trip

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